Christmas Day smelled of jollof rice and fried chicken. It was and still is the happiest time of my life. Most of my childhood Christmases were spent in the bustling city of Benin. With my mother far away in Abuja, my father at work six days of the week and my older siblings practically ignoring me, there was ample time to mix with the area children,...
Tuesday, 23 December 2014
Friday, 12 December 2014
The Hand That Giveth by Rakiya Galadima
Posted by Stella Stark on 12:10 with 2 comments
Fall of 2007, at 3:25 pm, on a gloomy day, a beautiful, black girl in a pink woollen dress and a coffee brown sweater arrives at the busy Victoria Station from Brighton. As she awaits an interchange to Birmingham she discovers that she has lost her money. Confused, stranded without any money except a fiver, she is neither able to return to Brighton...
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Saturday, 29 November 2014
The Village
Posted by Stella Stark on 02:27 with 2 comments
The River Niger flows through my village in Delta State, from its source in far away Guinea, very close to my grandma`s miniature four bedroom cottage in Ashaka.
I have no recollection of my first visit to Ashaka or of my grandpa who died soon after. I was only a few months old. My mother recounts the circumstances surrounding his death in one simple...
Friday, 21 November 2014
The Death Clock By Ewologhene Marioghae
Posted by Stella Stark on 14:16 with 8 comments
On one of my nightly rituals of browsing the internet after a busy day at work, I stumbled upon something called “The death Clock”. I opened the page and was greeted by the message “Welcome to the Death Clock, the internet's friendly reminder that life is slipping away... second by second”. I paused as I contemplated keying in my details in order to...
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Saturday, 15 November 2014
The Want Cycle By Rebekah Olayemi
Posted by Stella Stark on 09:24 with 3 comments
When Aunt Stella asked me to be her guest blogger for the week, I thought long and hard about what to write. I was a bit rusty because it had been a while since I wrote a piece for “pleasure”, after all, the hustle has turned professional! (he he) God de o. Well, I thought long and hard, came up with a few ideas, did not pen them down and lost...
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Wednesday, 29 October 2014
The Return of The Girls
Posted by Stella Stark on 12:24 with 5 comments
Last week, at Falomo Roundabout in Lagos, my car was almost hit by a dirty Danfo bus. As I expertly dodged the ochre-and-black stripes commuter bus, my gaze was drawn to a large group of photographs which surrounded the traffic circle like sentries. Numbering a hundred or more, they depicted a face with a red question mark at its centre, and a name...
Monday, 13 October 2014
London
Posted by Stella Stark on 12:25 with 10 comments
The first time I visited the UK, I recalled the story of a Nigerian boy who upon setting his eyes upon the city of London for the first time, asked innocently, " Na the London be dis? Why dem no paint am? "
The first thing I noticed on the ride from the airport to my hostess' home, was the old buildings, some dating as far back as 2,000 years....
Sunday, 28 September 2014
Spare The Rod or Spoil The Child
Posted by Stella Stark on 08:37 with 4 comments
Recently, American football star Adrian Peterson was indicted for whipping his 4 year old son with a tree branch, which he claimed was a method of disciplining the child. This got me thinking about how different the issue of discipline is here in Nigeria, how different it was when I was growing up.My parents, especially my mother was a believer in...
Sunday, 14 September 2014
The Hot Zone
Posted by Stella Stark on 09:24 with 6 comments
A group of men dressed in space-suit-like outfits, cautiously throw a dead body into a grave, they pause only to toss in anything else they are wearing that came into contact with the deceased. There are no religious or traditional burial rites, no ceremony, no mourning, no family members, and no final goodbyes. It looks like a scene from the...
Saturday, 30 August 2014
Medical Marijuana
Posted by Stella Stark on 07:50 with 19 comments
One of my earliest memories as a child was seeing a naked man for the first time. I was 5 years old.The man was not the least ashamed as he rummaged through the contents of a tall heap of rubbish at the end of the street. He was of medium height, very dark complexion, sturdy. His hair was long and bushy, even from some distance we could see the...
Tuesday, 29 July 2014
Amsterdam-ed
Posted by Stella Stark on 09:01 with 16 comments
The idea was born at 1.23 am at Schiphol airport. Almost at this same time last month.
Born on a hard reclining seat, not at all comfortable, in one of the upstairs lounges where I lay huddled in my just purchased duvet, still in my jeans, socks, shirt and jacket. God was it cold!
Finally, it was quiet in the lounge as my fellow travellers slept....
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